Introduction: Discovering the SSBBW Feedee Lifestyle
For as long as she could remember, Emma had always been drawn to the idea of being larger, of taking up space in a world that often pushed people like her to shrink. A confident woman with curves she proudly embraced, she had always identified as a BBW (Big Beautiful Woman). But over time, her desires deepened. She didn’t just want to maintain her size—she wanted to gain weight intentionally with feederism. She wanted to be a SSBBW feedee—someone who relishes the process of gaining weight, guided by a partner, or feeder, who supports and encourages her transformation.
Emma had heard of feeder-feedee relationships in online forums and social media groups, where people celebrated body positivity and weight gain in a healthy, consensual way. Intrigued, she began exploring what it meant to live as a SSBBW feedee, intentionally gaining weight with the support of someone who shared her passion. This journey led her to Feedee Finder, an online platform where people like her could find partners who were not only accepting but enthusiastic about their goals.
Finding Her Feeder
On Feedee Finder, Emma hoped to find a feeder who could not only support her in gaining weight but who also understood the emotional and psychological aspects of her journey. Scrolling through profiles, she noticed how most feeders were men, but one profile in particular caught her eye—it belonged to Mia, a compassionate, confident woman with years of experience in the feedee community.
Mia’s profile was different from the others. She spoke about the importance of trust, communication, and empowerment in a feedee-feeder relationship. She made it clear that her goal was not just to help her feedee gain weight, but to build a connection based on mutual respect, love, and admiration for every pound gained. The idea of having a female feeder excited Emma—there was something deeply comforting about the idea of another woman, someone who understood the complexities of body image and self-acceptance, guiding her on this journey.
After exchanging a few messages, they clicked instantly. Mia was warm, thoughtful, and funny—everything Emma had hoped for in a partner. They talked about everything, from their favorite foods to their shared experiences as larger women in a world that often pressured them to be smaller. It wasn’t long before they arranged their first meeting, where Emma’s journey as a SSBBW feedee would truly begin.
The First Meeting: Establishing Trust and Boundaries
Emma and Mia decided to meet at a quaint café that served delicious, hearty comfort food. Emma was nervous but excited. This wasn’t just a casual first date—it was the beginning of something profound. Over plates of rich mac and cheese and fluffy pancakes, they discussed the terms of their relationship. Mia was careful to ensure Emma felt completely in control.
“How do you want to approach this?” Mia asked, her voice soft but serious. “This is your journey, and I want to make sure we do everything on your terms.”
Emma smiled, feeling reassured. They spoke about boundaries, goals, and the pace at which they would move. Emma expressed her desire to start slow, savoring the process of gaining weight gradually. She wasn’t in a rush to reach a certain number on the scale; instead, she wanted to enjoy every step of her transformation. Mia, understanding the emotional depth of this journey, agreed completely.
The rest of the evening was spent discussing the pleasures of food, indulgence, and the empowerment that came from being unapologetically big. Emma had never felt more seen or understood. Mia wasn’t just there to help her gain weight—she was there to celebrate her body’s potential and to nurture her emotional growth along the way.
The First Months: Nurturing the Feedee-Feeder Relationship
Over the next few months, Emma’s life slowly transformed. Mia would visit Emma’s apartment several times a week, each time preparing meals designed to nourish Emma’s growing body. The meals were elaborate and calorie-dense, from creamy pasta dishes to multi-layered casseroles filled with meats, cheeses, and rich sauces. But what made the experience truly special wasn’t just the food; it was the way Mia approached the process.
Mia never pressured Emma. Every feeding session was a celebration, not a chore. She would cook with love, setting the table with care, making every meal feel like an occasion. As Emma ate, Mia would offer words of encouragement. “You’re beautiful, Emma,” she would say as she refilled her plate. “Every pound you gain makes you even more radiant.”
At first, the changes were subtle. Emma’s clothes began to feel tighter, her belly softening and filling out, her thighs thickening with new curves. Mia encouraged her to buy new clothes that fit her growing body, ensuring Emma always felt comfortable and confident. Every new inch, every added pound was celebrated.
Gaining Confidence Along with Weight
As Emma’s body grew, so did her confidence. She was gaining weight, but she was also gaining a deeper appreciation for herself. Every time she caught her reflection in the mirror, she saw the beautiful SSBBW feedee she was becoming—a woman who was intentionally taking control of her body and her desires. Mia was a constant source of support, not just physically but emotionally. She helped Emma navigate moments of insecurity, always reminding her of the strength and beauty in her transformation.
With Mia’s guidance, Emma learned to embrace the attention her body attracted. She loved the feeling of her belly brushing against her thighs when she sat down, the way her clothes hugged her curves tightly before Mia insisted they go shopping for new, more comfortable outfits. Every stretch mark, every added inch was a mark of her journey, a symbol of her growth—both physical and emotional.
“I love how you’re growing into yourself,” Mia would say, caressing Emma’s expanding belly during one of their feeding sessions. “You’re becoming more of who you were always meant to be.”
Navigating Challenges: Adapting to Life as a SSBBW Feedee
Of course, the journey wasn’t without its challenges. As Emma continued to gain weight, she began to experience some physical limitations. Walking for long periods of time left her winded, and she had to adjust to needing more rest throughout the day. Her knees and lower back sometimes ached, and she found that even basic tasks, like getting dressed or moving around the house, required more effort than before.
Mia was there through it all. When Emma struggled with mobility, Mia helped her find practical solutions, like mobility aids and more spacious furniture to accommodate her growing size. They would spend evenings together researching comfortable clothing options and discussing ways to ensure Emma stayed healthy while pursuing her weight gain goals.
One of the most difficult moments came when Emma ran into a former friend, who openly questioned her decision to gain so much weight. “Are you sure this is safe?” her friend asked, clearly uncomfortable with Emma’s new size. Emma, hurt but firm in her decision, explained that her weight gain was intentional and consensual, part of a journey that made her feel more confident and fulfilled than ever before. She realized then that not everyone would understand her choices, but that didn’t matter. What mattered was that she understood, and Mia supported her fully.
Reaching Milestones: Becoming the SSBBW Feedee She Always Dreamed Of
The months passed, and Emma continued to grow—both physically and emotionally. By the time she had gained over 120 pounds, she had fully embraced her identity as a SSBBW feedee. Her body was larger, softer, and fuller than she ever thought possible, and she loved every inch of it. Mia, always attentive and loving, celebrated every milestone with her. They threw a small party to mark the occasion when Emma officially reached her first weight goal, indulging in a rich feast of decadent dishes.
For Emma, the number on the scale wasn’t as important as the sense of self she had gained. She had grown into the SSBBW feedee she had always dreamed of becoming, and Mia had been there every step of the way, offering unwavering support, love, and encouragement.
Their relationship had deepened in ways Emma never expected. It wasn’t just about feeding sessions or gaining weight—it was about a connection built on trust, shared desires, and mutual respect. Mia wasn’t just a feeder—she was a partner, a confidante, and a source of constant emotional support. Emma is now on her way to become a USSBBW Feedee.
Living as a SSBBW Feedee: A New Life of Empowerment
As Emma settled into her new life as a SSBBW feedee, she felt more empowered than ever. Her body had transformed, but so had her mindset. She had learned to love and cherish her size, thanks to Mia’s guidance and support. Every day was an opportunity to embrace her growth, and every meal was a celebration of her journey.
Together, Emma and Mia continued to explore new ways to celebrate Emma’s body and her identity as a SSBBW feedee. They found joy in the everyday moments—whether it was enjoying a lavish meal together or simply spending time talking about Emma’s goals for the future. Emma knew that with Mia by her side, she could continue her journey of self-discovery and growth, no matter where it led.
